We must learn to be able to dance and sing in the rain, just as we do in the sunshine!
The ability to not have an overt emotional reaction, but rather an open attentiveness and responsiveness to the diverse perspectives people have is very important.
Raise your standards in order to become the person capable.
"The explorer for truth must first declare his independence of all obligations or brotherhoods of any kind whatsoever. He must be free to think and reason..." – Andrew Taylor Still
"...You cannot stay away from yourself forever, you have to return, have to come to that experiment, to know whether you really can love. That is the question-whether you can love yourself, and that will be the test." – Carl Jung