Healing with Sexual Energy: Sex for Health, Relationships and Spirituality by Walter Last, Part 7:
SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS
Presently a large number of marriages ends in divorce, often already after a very short time. Informal relationships are even more fragile. While this is a rather recent phenomenon, the underlying reason has always been there. In previous centuries marriages simply were held together by social pressure and an inability to get a divorce.
The underlying reasons that drive relationships apart are rooted in the hormonal characteristics of our sexual relationships. In evolutionary terms we are conditioned to spread our genes as widely as possible, and provide a safe environment for raising our offspring. This means we are programmed to meet, fall in love, mate to conceive a child, and after some time to meet another lover and repeat this procedure.
Females are attracted sexually to handsome men, but often choose mates based on resources and parenting potential, and males try to spread their genes by being strongly attracted to any (fertile) female with genetically desirable features.
Artwork by, Tomoo Gokita
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“I have found in life that if you want a miracle you first need to do whatever it is you can do – if that’s to plant, then plant; if it is to read, then read; if it is to change, then change; if it is to study, then
study; if it is to work, then work; whatever you have to do. And then you will be well on your way of doing the labor that works miracles.” Jim Rohn
Photograph of, Dan Lurie
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Healing with Sexual Energy: Sex for Health, Relationships and Spirituality by Walter Last, Part 6:
The Benefits of Oxytocin
Fear - Cortisol:
Aggression
Arousal, Anxiety, Feeling stressed-out
Activates addictions
Suppresses libido
Associated with depression
Can be toxic to brain cells
Breaks down muscles, bones and joints
Weakens immune system
Increases pain
Clogs arteries, Promotes heart disease and high blood pressure
Obesity
Diabetes
Osteoporosis
Love - Oxytocin:
Anti-stress hormone
Feeling calm and connected,
Increased curiosity
Lessens cravings & addictions
Increases sexual receptivity
Positive feelings
Facilitates learning
Repairs, heals and restores
Faster wound healing
Diminishes sense of pain
Lowers blood pressure
Protects against heart disease
The time-honored solution to this problem is loving sex without orgasm. This greatly helps to sustain oxytocin levelswithout producing emotionally disruptive high-low neurochemical cycles of orgasm, and it has been practiced in Indian Tantra, by the Chinese Taoists, and apparently by early Christians. In modern times it has been resurrected as Karezza, White Tantra and various forms of spiritual sex. It heals and holds relationships together rather than driving them apart as frequent orgasmic sex seems to do although, as we will see later, it is also possible to have bonding orgasmic sex.
Video from, the motion picture "Up", 1976
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Coffe, Part Three
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“Symptoms to expect when you do coffee right are calmness, focus, motivation, warmth, and stable energy. Coffee done wrong leads to anxiety, shakiness, sweating, feeling wired, inability to focus, and sometimes cold extremities. Truthfully there is no right or wrong because whether you react well or not, the situation serves as a learning tool if you’re knowledgeable and aware enough to assess and
correct the symptoms.
If you do get unfriendly symptoms from using coffee, stop what you’re doing as soon as possible and correct by eating or drinking something sweet like orange juice, honey, a ripe fruit, ice cream, or sweetened milk. This action will lower the symptom-producing substances by raising the blood sugar.” Rob Turner, Coffee Done Right – Tips to Help Avoid Coffee Intolerance
Video of, Kelsey Grammer from the television series "Frasier", 1993-2004
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“For decades now I’ve encouraged everyone to believe that making a good living at what you love is a possibility. If you stay on purpose and are committed to following your bliss, the universal one mind will cooperate with you in bringing this to fruition. The right people will show up, the obstacles will be swept away, the necessary circumstances will materialize, and guidance will be there.” Wayne W. Dyer
Photograph of, Kristi Oakley
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