Be Aggressive, but – Communicate, Connect, Trust, Respect, Grow, Love!


Unfaithful 2002
Unfaithful, 2002

“Her hands clawed for a hand hold on the sheets as he took her. He wound his hand in her hair and pulled her back, her mouth open in a soundless scream. An airless breath. She had no thought. She could only feel.” Purely Sensual Visions

Unknown Erotic Photography 2Do you crave for and like it when he holds you down? Tightens his hand around your neck and throat? Pushing you firmly into the bed from behind? Do you like knowing he owns your body? That you are all his? Do you love it when he has his way with you?

By no means am I ever condoning physical/sexual abuse to your partner. We all have fantasies, wants, likes, needs etc and as long as we communicate these honest feelings with our partner and learn what is allowed and not allowed (always changing) we set ourselves up for a beautiful, equal, honest partnership in a relationship where both people will feel loved, heard, safe, valued, respected, shame free, allowing each person to be themselves, growing together, evolving together.

Unknown Erotic Photography 1“I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.” Anaïs Nin

I want to preface this with how important communication in the relationship is. Listen to what your partner wants, likes and dislikes. Sometimes they can like a topic or act one time and then be completely turned off of it the next. So be attentive to their responses and actions.

The topic at hand (being aggressive and dominating) doesn’t have to be an every time occasion with your partner but we should always want to please and pleasure our partner to no end, not to get something in return physically but because we love giving our partner as much pleasure as possible because we LOVE them.

If there are acts you do not want or are not comfortable with doing, COMMUNICATE it with them. Talking and honesty is of paramount importance. Sometimes things we didn’t think we would like or ever do become arousing and wants after talking about it or thinking about it with our partner. Keep an open mind but an honest mind!

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Do Not Go Gentle

“I’m really surprised at how little men want to get ‘rough’ in bed. I really enjoy it when a man wraps his hands in all my thick, curly hair and pulls my head back, especially when he’s entering me from behind. After pulling my hair, I like it when he puts his hand on the front of my neck and pulls me into him—it’s such a turn-on!” Jen, 28 The 15 sex fantasies she craves by Mens Fitness

When a Man Chooses to Know a Woman

Unknown Gif 1“Unlike a man, woman aren’t turned off & on like a switch. A woman’s desire builds over time and is connected to trust.

Women actually possess the ability for infinite sexual desire – for the right man.

The key to opening a woman’s unbridled and uninhibited sexuality comes from a man’s desire to truly ‘know’ her, not simply to penetrate her.

The man who can turn a woman on at will has taken his time to know her and approaches his woman with delicious desire and the confidence of already knowing she wants. Most men make meager requests or insistent demands out of needs for their own sexual gratification and have yet to open a woman this way.

Unknown Gif 5When a man chooses to ‘know’ a woman rather than simply penetrate her, his capacity to sensually connect evolves beyond ‘one and then done’. In fact, ‘multiples’ are not a phenomena exclusive to women. Seek to know her. Once she completely trusts you she’ll want to be utterly consumed by you. This energy generates a spiritual Viagra and an unlimited ability for you to remain connected and fulfill her as well. A woman’s desire becomes infinite once a man never stops seeking to know the depths of her soul. A man’s performance becomes limitless once she’s been opened so completely.” Graham R White

Artwork by Unknown
Artwork by Unknown

“Deep down, each woman longs for complete surrender with her beloved. She wants to let go and lose control, being possessed by love to her intimate core of being.

When she feels safe with her man, knowing that it is fine to really be herself, she will go wild. She becomes lost to herself, drunk on her capacity for ecstasy. In such a state, she will be able to know all that erotic love can give, including, multiple full body orgasms.” Mahasatvaa Sarita, The Sacred Power Of Your Yoni {Full Body Orgasm, Cervical- & Multiple Orgasm}

Artwork by Erica Chappuis
Erica Chappuis Artwork

“He called to her primal side; the ancient aspect of her animal self that wanted to submit. It wanted to submit to him; to sacrifice all of who she was at the altar of his maleness and lay herself bare for his taking.” Dianna Hardy, Releasing The Wolf

“Great sex needs time and a mental connection, not just a physical one.” ‘Not Facebook: Things I Don’t Tell People in Real Life’ – “Personal Ad.”Unknown Photography 2

“I want to develop something deeper with this man. … But the only way to really do that is with a deep mental connection. Primal sex works best this way.” How to have Raw, Sweaty, Wild, Primal, Animalistic Sex

“…ravishing sex is not for everyone and every stage of a relationship… especially for a woman, she has to feel comfortable indulging in it with someone she trusts and loves, and knows will not judge her unless she is having a one night stand with a man she feels high sexual intensity with.” Ange Fonce, Ravishing Animalistic Sex With Your Lover

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