“I want a man who touches and kisses me ALOT. I want a man who will welcome my body crawling onto his in the middle of the night. I want a man who will sleep so close to me that our bodies become one.
I want a man who will genuinely acknowledge and appreciate me.
I don’t need a man to understand me, but I do want a man with a powerful presence. A man masculine enough to hold the space to let myemotions move through me. I want a man who shows me that I’m safe, even when I’m unable to articulate what I’m feeling. I want a man I can trust with all the scary parts of myself that *I* am still working to dissect and understand.
I want a man who challenges me, calls me on my shit, sees my gifts and reflects them back to me.
I want a man who WON’T accept me just as I am. A man that will only accept the best version of me. Who see’s my potential and demands I reach it. I want a man who will never settle for me.
I want a man who has stepped through his fear and has a clear sense of why he’s here and who he’s meant to serve.
I want a man who will allow me to love him. A man who believes he deserves to be honoured, respected and loved deeply. A man who knows his worth and has accepted all that he is and all that he will be.
I want a man with goals, a man with a plan who lives each day to it’s fullest. I want a man who laughs and isn’t ashamed to cry. A man who owns his emotions.
I want a man who fucks up and owns it. A man who understands life is about learning and perfection doesn’t exist.
I want a man who never stops pushing himself to be the best he can be.
I want a man who likes to kiss me in public and pull my hair in private. A man who can claim me, own me, ravish me, love me and fuck me. A man who can give me what I need sexually without me having to ask. A man who makes my body ache for him because of how he shows up in the world. A man who knows how to fuck my body as well as my soul. A man I trust heart, mind, body and soul.
Most importantly…. I want to be the woman who deserves this type of man. A woman who never stops growing, learning, loving, forgiving, falling but always picking herself up. A woman who loves herself first and is the most magnificent version of who she was created to be. A woman who knows her worth and what she deserves. A woman who won’t settle or be settled for in life and in love.” – Jennifer, Broken Open