Honor Your Woman by Honoring Yourself, Values Matter Greatly, Stand Tall For Your Woman, Ravishing Sex is Subjective, and Emotional Ravishment Can Very Easily Lead to Sexual Ravishment


  1. “Some men know that a light touch of the tongue, running from a woman’s toes to her ears, lingering in the softest way possible in various places in between, given often enough and sincerely enough, would add immeasurably to world peace.” Marianne Williamson
  2. “The truth is a woman cannot help but honor a man who first honors himself by having the integrity to stand for and live by his values. By “honor,” I am talking about a woman’s feelings of safety/security, respect, and attraction. She desires to be in his company. She wants to feel safety in the strength of his conviction and the adventure in his unalterable passions.” Steve Horsmon, Good Guys 2 Great Men
  3. “…if you don’t trust your man because he is undirected, scattered, ambiguous or otherwise weak in his masculine energy, this will undercut your relationship, reducing your passion, your sexual attraction and your trust of each other.” David Deida
  4. “One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman’s emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax.” David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man
  5. “From an evolutionary psychology perspective, women want to know that their man can take care of them, and can hold them, both emotionally and physically. I have a female friend who is close to six feet tall and she loves that her husband can physically hold her, pick her up, engulf her and sometimes make her feel like she’s a little girl.
    If we believe that form follows function, then if a man can open a woman sexually with his dominance, perhaps he can also metaphorically open her heart with his dominance.” Adam Sheck, The Ravish-Me Fantasy: Why Women Want their Man to Take Them
  6. “Before you kiss your woman, keep your mouth close to hers but don’t kiss her yet, keep eye contact, press your belly into hers then let your body forcefully, while still protecting her, push her backwards into the wall behind her. Move her backwards against the wall with your body tension and hold her there with your entire body, keep eye contact, breathe with her—and only then do you kiss her—forcefully. Bend your knees slightly and press up, and against her, pushing her up and into the wall. If sizes/heights/etc. make it possible, lift her up against the wall, so she can wrap her legs around your waist.
    If possible, lift and move your woman to reposition you both during sex. Women love to be lifted and repositioned during sex.
    Emotional Ravishment: When your woman is upset (sad, angry, etc.), just walk up to her calmly (even if she’s upset at you) and take her in your arms—firmly. Don’t wait for her to ask you to hold her. Just do it. Press your belly against hers and stand firm and strong—in your heart and mind, as well as in your physical stance. Breathe from your belly. Imagine that you are the cliffs against which her waves (anger, sadness, etc.) are crashing. If she struggles, yells, or expresses more emotions, hold her anyway until she softens and relaxes. Emotional ravishment can very easily lead to sexual ravishment.
    Hint: This may take a while the first time you do it. If you do this often, it will take less and less time for her to soften into you each time. This is an invaluable gift to give your woman, and she may be very shy to ask for this from you, because she feels it is a big thing to ask for. If you can give your woman this gift on a regular basis, you will absolutely win her heart.
    We women need a “release” for all these emotions that are a constant way of life for us. These emotions can be overwhelming. If your woman trusts you and is able to be her vulnerable, feminine, open self, this emotional release may happen at orgasm too (this is often why she cries during/after orgasm sometimes.
    It’s good crying, even though it may not look that way. It is her way of releasing. And it shows she trusts you if she does this. Don’t be upset by this. Do ask her if she’s okay and how you can help. Do not belittle her for this! Remember, the feminine is the emotions).
    During sex, take her hands, move her hands away from her body and hold her arms out from her body—either above her head or out to the sides against the bed/wall. Use some weight; don’t let her move her own hands until you let them move.” Grace Cooley, How to Ravish Your Woman—Not for Men Only
  7. “Ravishing sex is subjective.
    What is ravishing to one person could be tame to another.
    If you are seeing someone for a while, and they confess that they love ravishing sex, do not just grin widely and assume you know what they expect you to do in bed.
    What Is Ravishing Sex?
    Ravishing sex is the type of sex where you involve pain in the sexual act, to increase sexual pleasure!
    It is a sexual release where you can show off your dominant strength and your lust at the same time.
    If you are not someone who is into ravishing sex, bringing all that domination into something as romantic as lovemaking could sound alarming, and that could all change once you understand the little nuances of passionate, ravishing sex here.
    Firstly, ravishing sex is best enjoyed with a partner you trust… both of you know each other’s limitations and capabilities, and it is understood to know where to draw the line.
    The Psychological And Emotional Thrill Of Ravishing Sex
    One of the sexier things about ravishing sex is how contagious it is in bed.
    If you claw your lover’s back with your nails, the rage they experience will subconsciously force them to reciprocate your ravishing moves with their own, which can lead to a heightened sexual experience for both of you.
    And ravishing sex is not for everyone, especially men and women who have had bad experiences with it.
    For the ones who enjoy it though, an occasional round of ravishing sex can increase the passion in a long term relationship.
    People who love ravishing sex get the sexual high, from truly letting go and getting into the animalistic experience which can be “transcendent and spiritual” and takes sexual experience to a whole new level.
    It is definitely not a bad thing though, because every once in a while, a change in routine in any relationship can make lovemaking a lot more sensual and alive.
    When you are genuinely having ravishing sex, the urge to enhance the sexual sensation is so overwhelming that even penetration alone cannot satisfy you.
    You want to do more… the pleasure hurts and you like it, and that is what makes the whole thing so passionate and intense.
    You are taking yourself and your lover right to the edge where the experience is at it’s most intense and you are most ALIVE!
    Yet ravishing sex is not for everyone and every stage of a relationship… especially for a woman, she has to feel comfortable indulging in it with someone she trusts and loves, and knows will not judge her unless she is having a one night stand with a man she feels high sexual intensity with.
    Ravishing sex is highly intense sex and can be rough, and even when lovers indulge in it, be they male – female or same sex lovers… they can take on two different kinds of roles.
    One partner usually initiates ravishing sex while the other partner experiences being ravished and gets aroused by it.
    If you are more dominant in the relationship or in real life and have a career or a lifestyle where you are not pushed around much, you may enjoy submissive rough sex more than other people.
    It is your mind’s way of craving for a release from the responsibility and the control… the psychological release of control makes you enjoy your orgasm better.
    On the other hand, a lover who plays a submissive part in the relationship or in real life may get more pleasure by taking control in bed or by playing the dominant partner while having ravishing sex.
    Ravishing sex does not have to be a means to abuse each other or feel powerful… it can be used as a psychological release, just as long as you practice it in a controlled environment and swap dominant and submissive sides often, unless both of you prefer specific roles all the time.” Ange Fonce, Ravishing Animalistic Sex With Your Lover
Photograph from the motion picture Bram Stokers Dracula
Bram Stokers Dracula, 1992

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