Cunnilingus, The Fountain of Youth – Communication, Love, Desire, and Trust

Communication is a critically important necessity between partners. The ability to feel safe and comfortable with one another should be the central focus. Become aware of what your partner likes and what they do not like. Create a foundation and platform for speaking your deepest truths to one another. Ask questions, pay attention, accept, learn and grow together. Stay in a place of mutuality and reciprocity. Communicate!

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Artwork by Unknown

“I like everything you do to me.”

“In that case”- he flipped her onto her back again, spread her thighs- “I think we should explore the concept of oral sex.” Her brain hazed over. And stayed hazed.” – Nalini Singh, Kiss of Snow

The message behind this post is about much more than oral love. To me, it is about wanting to know as much as one can about what relaxes and makes the person you are with feel 100 percent loved and comfortable with you. It’s about pleasure between partners who see eachother respectfully and share this, and the many other, dimension(s) of themselves.

“Erotic intimacy is the revelation of our memories, wishes, fears, expectations, and struggles within a sexual relationship. When our innermost desires are revealed, and are met by our loved one with acceptance and validation, the shame dissolves. It is an experience of profound empowerment and self-affirmation for the heart, body, and soul. When we can be present for both love and sex, we transcend the battleground of Puritanism and hedonism.” – Esther Perel

When your partner is allowing herself to open her body to you and to share in this experience together from a place of love, support, passion and trust, it becomes a deeply satisfying, and some might say spiritual, experience.

Bodyscape by Anton Belovodchenko
Bodyscape by Anton Belovodchenko

“Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you’ve got the world’s most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she’s going to worry about how you like her body. …Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it’s what you make it. Take your time, practice often, pay attention to your lover’s signals, and most of all, enjoy yourself.” – Unknown, How to Eat Pussy

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“Treat her whole body as a sex organ and put as much attention on her neck, her chest, her nipples, her stomach. Don’t just go straight for her pussy.” – Yia Vang, Slow Pussy Sucking: Only For Grown Folks

Oral Sex: Who doesn’t want to learn how to better pleasure their partner more?

My One, My Only, My Queen, My Goddess. How Lucky I Am. Forever Is How Long I Promise To Pleasure You.

Love Passion Desire“Good sex involves give
and take. Sometimes
though, the best sex is
just giving.” – Purely Sensual Visions

The deeper the love and the greater the trust for one another, the farther you want to venture with that person. The more you crave to pleasure them and by pleasuring them, you pleasure yourself.

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“The more we trust, the farther we are able to venture.” – Esther Perel

With her, she is my very own fountain of youth. I crave her, all of her, her whole being, first thing in the morning. Sun up to sun down…all the way until forever. She is my favorite breakfast, lunch, snack, and dinner. My only appetizer, my favorite dessert. Only with her. Only ever her. She is heaven in human form.

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Artwork by Unknown

“Ô, the wine of a woman from heaven is sent,
more perfect than all that a man can invent.” – Roman Payne, Europa: Limited Time Edition

When the love and lust of that special someone is so strong and deep, days feel like years. It isn’t so much the act itself but the partnership and bond that the two of you have that makes it all worthwhile, pleasurable to no end, and sacred. The aching, craving, and intense want, need, desire that builds every second my face isn’t between YOUR legs. I yearn for, I miss. Only you, only ever you.

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Artwork by Unknown
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Photography by Unknown

“Those sweet lips. My, oh my, I could kiss those lips all night long…” – Jess C. Scott, The Intern

Tease Her BodyTease her. Build up the anticipation. Show her you are in control and that you are going to give her everything she desires. The way you look at her with the love and lust of wanting her, she will feel that intensity without ever being touched physically by you. Don’t just touch her but play music with her body.

Photography by Unknown
Photography by Unknown

“My panties were still on but he didn’t let that stop him, nosing them out of the way and tonguing my sex, making low, growling noises in his throat like a big cat purring with pleasure while it devoured its prey.” – Emme Rollins, Dear Rockstar

CunilingusMove With HerListen to how her body responds to you. How she is positioning her body. Move with her. Let it be natural. Yes it is okay and wanted to position her and move her at your will at times but if she is moving her body to what feels good for her in the moment, go with her. If she pulls you into her, she wants more of you in her. She is enjoying what you are doing. She could want it harder, or more aggressively. Tongue deeper. Or she doesn’t want you to change a thing.

Artwork by Raffaele Marinetti Untitled
Artwork by Raffaele Marinetti

“She arches her body like a cat on a stretch. She nuzzles her cunt into my face like a filly at the gate. She smells of the sea. She smells of rockpools when I was a child. She keeps a starfish in there. I crouch down to taste the salt, to run my fingers around the rim. She opens and shuts like a sea anemone. She’s refilled each day with fresh tides of longing.” – Jeanette Winterson, Written on the Body

Some of My Favorite Cunnilingus Poems

“Lost in your dark lusty eyes
our lips meet and our tongues entwine.

I want you….

Gently, you lay me on my back
and position yourself on top of me
pressing your lips to mine
I wrap my legs around you
a slight moan escapes my throat
gazing up into your eyes
I am falling deeper in love
your hands wander to my waist
running your fingers over my breasts.

I need you…

Piece by piece we shed our clothing
you begin kissing my ankles
moving up my calves to my thighs
your lips are amazing, tongue incredible
working my most sensitive area
you gently spread my lips with two fingers
and lick oh, so slowly at my hidden treasure.

I feel you…

Inserting your finger into me
sends waves of electric shocks
through the deepest parts of me
my soul is on fire, burning with desire
my body shakes, my juices release
my walls throb around your finger.

You are perfect….

my breathing becomes shallow
I begin to relax
you wipe the sweat from my forehead
place a gentle kiss on my cheek
and whisper how good I taste
I look into your eyes and smile.

I love you…– Perfect Cunnilingus by Poetic Sunshine

“I want to dip my tongue,
inside your flavor.
With no waver,
I savor your taste.
With a desires pace,
your liquids turned to paste,
a love potion laced with our grace.
Delicious lips glistening with ours juices.
A cocktail saturated with your nectar.
Our fountain we await,
satisfaction at a heighted state.
I greet you with my pleasures
at an amazing pace, our lips embrace
lacerated by my tongue —
I trespass your pearly gates,
where your pleasure awaits,
I await – at the mercy of our warm
embrace.” – Fountain by Unknown

“Open me up slowly, softly, tenderly,
Taste my wine of wanting lust,

Take my mind on a distance ride,
While it rides on tides of surreal sensations…

Taste me deep,
Until my knees go weak,

Make my lungs deeply exhale
As the sexual storm inside me wails,

Make my voice speak in an unknown language
While my ears bask in audible slurps and suction sounds…

And just before my world quivers,
Tell me… What flavor is my taste?” – Quivers by 1Manview

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